Children come to life innocent, unaware of the harsh aspects of pain and suffering and how cruel people can be. Part of the job of parenting is to protect them from that harsh truth long enough for them to develop a sense of goodness and core values of optimism, trust, internal curiosity, and a hunger for learning. If they see too much too soon--before they're neurologically and emotionally ready to process it--it can short-circuit that natural curiosity. Boys and girls alike are easily traumatized by premature exposure to the media-based adult culture that cultivates cynicism and cynical values, treats sex and violence as entertainment, routinely sexualizes perceptions of girls and women, and encourages aggression in boys.
As a parent, I was initially taken aback by how actively I've needed to protect my child's childhood (and her creative imagination) from predatory marketers and crass media. I had no idea that would be such a challenge. If you haven't seen Steiner-Adair's book check it out. It has great thoughts on how to guide your kids through the digital wilderness (and, I'm warning you now, won't let you off the hook about your own habits). Â If her name sounds familiar, it's because she's also authored a path-breaking curriculum on Â fostering health and leadership Â among girls. Â